In a medium bowl, combine the crushed Oreo cookies and melted butter until well mixed.
Press the mixture firmly into the bottom of a 9x13 inch baking dish to form the crust and refrigerate for 10 minutes.
In a large mixing bowl, beat the cream cheese until smooth, then whisk in the sugar and 2 tablespoons of milk.
Gently fold in 8 ounces of the whipped topping into the cream cheese mixture until combined.
Spread the cream cheese mixture evenly over the chilled Oreo crust.
In a separate bowl, whisk the instant white chocolate pudding mix with 3 cups of cold milk for 2 minutes until it begins to thicken.
Spread the pudding layer evenly over the cream cheese layer.
Top the pudding with the remaining 8 ounces of whipped topping, spreading it to the edges of the dish.
Garnish the top with festive holiday sprinkles and mini chocolate chips.
Refrigerate for at least 4 hours or overnight to allow the layers to set properly before serving.